don't criticise , condemn or complain (criticise karne se chije kharab hi hoti hai)
give honest and sincere appreciation
arouse in the other person an eager want
make people like you
be genuinely interested in another person
smile- best thing u could for making the first impression
remember names of everyone u met (that's the sweetest thing everybody wants to hear)(wish them in their birthdays and important dates if possible)
be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
how to win people to your way of thinking
If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes; but it will be an empty victory cause you will never get your opponent's will.
A drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall.
He who treads softly goes far.
Get the other person saying yes yes immediately.
Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
Be sympathetic with the other person's idea and desires.
leader
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders(do you think, you might consider this,)
Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.
Use of praise instead of criticism
Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be hearty in your appreciation and lavish in your praise.
give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
Always make the other person happy about doing the things you suggest.